#SexColumn: Sexy Staycation Ideas
It adds a little extra spice to your relationship
#SexColumn: If sex is like another chore, try having a kind conversation with your partner
‘If you’ve started treating sex like another chore on your to-do-list, I’m sure it shows and feels like it to your partner. Nobody wants to be on a to-do list. Unless it’s a mind-blowing do. ’
#SexColumn: Myths and Legends – In search of the G-Spot
The majority of us are still in search of that G Spot orgasm
#SexColumn: How to prepare for a threesome
You and your partner need to talk about what’s going to happen and how
#SexColumn: Menopause
If you’ve ever had one, you will know how uncomfortable and painful it is
#SexColumn: The pleasure gap
Heterosexual men, when having sex will orgasm approximately 95% of the time
#SexColumn: How to kill or save your relationship
‘Relationships often fail because of what remains unsaid. Whether it’s out of fear or not wanting to hurt feelings, it’s unhealthy,’ writes Sharon Gordon.
#SexColumn: What does bondage mean?
The play cannot begin until you have verbal and enthusiastic consent.
#SexColumn: Sex challenge
You don’t want the experience to leave you with an infection
#SexColumn: The importance of mental health
Depression and anxiety have a profound effect on your libido and relationships
#SexColumn: What’s in a kink
A single hit no longer has the same effect
#SexColumn: How to be kind in a difficult situation is a hard lesson
‘I have the sharpest tongue and a foul temper. When I lose it, I feel as if I am out of my body watching the train wreck about to happen. I can feel myself thinking this is not going to end well, that I should shut up… ‘
#SexColumn: Non-monogamy
All the participants must know about the others
#SexColumn: Solo sex challenge
Start by standing in front of a full-length mirror and have a good look
#SexColumn: Reviving sexual aftercare
As partners discuss their feelings and experiences openly
#SexColumn: discovering your truly sensual body parts
It promotes open communication and vulnerability
#SexColumn: I have the sharpest tongue and a foul temper
I feel as if I am out of my body watching the train wreck about to happen
#SexColumn: Some of the best sex I’ve had was casual sex
It was nothing more than a holiday romance
#SexColumn: Asking what their favourite smell is can lead to exciting surprises
Sharon Gordon shares that by answering a relatively inane question as fully as one can, may open a window into someone’s life, and how that can bring people closer, but also how it can be a form of foreplay.
#SexColumn: Undoing Vagina myths
The myth of the tight vagina
#SexColumn: Pleasure has never been a part of the female sexual response agenda
Orgasm Day is coming up on July 31. Yes, there is a day that celebrates that oh so wonderful feeling many of us chase. Statistics tell us that about 10% to 15% of women have never had an orgasm.
#SexColumn: ‘How do I know if I’m ready to have sex?’
‘I sometimes give talks to teenagers about sex and the big question is always – how do I know if I’m ready to have sex? I believe in the holy trinity, or rather my take on it. ’
#SexColumn: Educating around sexual consent empowers youth
My biggest trigger is when parents don’t educate their children about sex and consent. If you think your children are innocent little angels and are too young to be talking about sex (in an age-appropriate way) – think again.
#SexColumn: Grief can affect a relationship and a libido
Understanding that grief is a complex and personal process is crucial. I loved my mother and respected her courage and strength. I was not with her when she passed, my brother was. I’m not sure how I feel about not being there.
#SexColumn: Have calm and open discussions when partner is not meeting your needs
Accepting that your partner won’t be able to meet that need