It adds a little extra spice to your relationship
‘If you’ve started treating sex like another chore on your to-do-list, I’m sure it shows and feels like it to your partner. Nobody wants to be on a to-do list. Unless it’s a mind-blowing do. ’
The majority of us are still in search of that G Spot orgasm
You and your partner need to talk about what’s going to happen and how
If you’ve ever had one, you will know how uncomfortable and painful it is
Heterosexual men, when having sex will orgasm approximately 95% of the time
‘Relationships often fail because of what remains unsaid. Whether it’s out of fear or not wanting to hurt feelings, it’s unhealthy,’ writes Sharon Gordon.
The play cannot begin until you have verbal and enthusiastic consent.
You don’t want the experience to leave you with an infection
Depression and anxiety have a profound effect on your libido and relationships
A single hit no longer has the same effect
‘I have the sharpest tongue and a foul temper. When I lose it, I feel as if I am out of my body watching the train wreck about to happen. I can feel myself thinking this is not going to end well, that I should shut up… ‘
All the participants must know about the others
Start by standing in front of a full-length mirror and have a good look
As partners discuss their feelings and experiences openly
It promotes open communication and vulnerability
I feel as if I am out of my body watching the train wreck about to happen
It was nothing more than a holiday romance
Sharon Gordon shares that by answering a relatively inane question as fully as one can, may open a window into someone’s life, and how that can bring people closer, but also how it can be a form of foreplay.
The myth of the tight vagina
Orgasm Day is coming up on July 31. Yes, there is a day that celebrates that oh so wonderful feeling many of us chase. Statistics tell us that about 10% to 15% of women have never had an orgasm.
‘I sometimes give talks to teenagers about sex and the big question is always – how do I know if I’m ready to have sex? I believe in the holy trinity, or rather my take on it. ’
My biggest trigger is when parents don’t educate their children about sex and consent. If you think your children are innocent little angels and are too young to be talking about sex (in an age-appropriate way) – think again.
Understanding that grief is a complex and personal process is crucial. I loved my mother and respected her courage and strength. I was not with her when she passed, my brother was. I’m not sure how I feel about not being there.
Accepting that your partner won’t be able to meet that need
