‘We need to highlight this taboo subject’

Illa Thompson|Published 10 years ago

Katy Moore, the female lead in this year's festive adult panto at Suncoast, SinderFella. Katy Moore, the female lead in this year's festive adult panto at Suncoast, SinderFella.

Leading lady: Katy Moore

Originally from the UK, Katy is from the English theatre tradition. She is currently taking the female lead in this year’s festive adult panto at Suncoast, SinderFella. Illa Thompson asked her what 16 Days of Activism means to her

16 Days of Activism: What it means to me

As a mother of a little girl, this issue is close to my heart. We need to highlight the taboo subject of violence and rape against women and children.

We need to create a safe and happy environment for the victims to come forward and claim justice. We also need to show that we will not stand for violence in a partnership, by shining a light on the very real situation and offering help, guidance and support.

It is an unfair and traumatic experience for the victims of these terrible ordeals.

I believe by raising awareness of the issue we can educate young minds and show we will not accept the situation. It will, in turn, hopefully build a safer and more sympathetic world, without fear or abuse.

We need to stand together, to highlight this issue and with understanding and support can help eradicate it completely.

Did you know?

This year, the theme of 16 Days in South Africa is: “Count Me In. Together moving a non-violent South Africa forward.” It is the 16th year of the campaign, and will also reflect on 20 years of democracy in South Africa and 60 years of the Women’s Charter.

Speaking about the campaign in Parliament last Friday, Susan Shabangu, the Minister in the Presidency for Women, said: “Imagine living in a society where we no longer read or hear about the abuse that women and children often suffer at the hands of heartless perpetrators.”

Parliament hosted a joint sitting of the National Assembly and the National Council of Provinces to debate 16 Days. It began with the lighting of the torch of peace in the morning and the signing of a pledge by members of Parliament.

What can you do?

Understanding that men are critical partners in the fight against the abuse of women and children, every opportunity should be taken to encourage men and boys to talk about abuse and actively discourage abusive behaviour.

If you have access to a group of boys and young men – through a school, community or worship group – consider running a programme on prevention of gender-based domestic violence.

Independent social worker Joan Deare runs a practical, goal-driven course for boys from 13 upwards in six sessions. Contact her on 079 838 0820/joanmdeare@hotmail.com if you are keen to find out more.